perfect marriage-does it exist?
Do you think marriages are made in heaven? The answer of this question differs from person to person. contradiction are definitely there for the perfect marriage, if somebody ask me to give opinion about it, i would rather say i believe in marriage , moreover, a perfect marriage. Though i have not entered the holy matrimony, yet dreams are there. But the question is 'what is perfect marriage'? Does the word 'perfect' is added by God or humans? this part of question is very tricky to answer,even experts are arguing on it. Perfect marriage (according to my opinion) is a journey with one soul and two bodies. But the truth is women rule's. Women always wanted to rule in marriage , if her domination fails , her frustration,anger changes into a sweet knife which can chop her partner desire,pleasure ,emotion and life into pieces. In one word, "BOSS..YOU ARE DEAD ".
Does man treats his women the same way as women do? Experts says that man does not want to be dominated. He rather become the victims of insecurity and badly-treated. As we know that his hormones are tuned to be the protector and provider of the family,domination from his better half kills the real man in him. In most cases couples really change there individuality to see smile in partners faces. but where does this sacrifices land up? Does a person really makes other person happy by killing one desire? why every body want to change his/her partner into his/her second version? Does it really called " true love" or "perfect marriage". The answer is not so difficult. Everybody says..' accept the person the way they are' . but does it really possible? I personally tried to accept my partner the way he is, but believe me , it really kills me inside and outcome is.. "Don't you know i don't like this ".
This form of contradiction continue life long. It may be like this way or other way.
May be this is called the journey of perfect marriage.
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ReplyDeleteHello, thanks for your comment. i appreciate your views and it's okay if you don't agree with me! :)But i have already mentioned that its a personalized view, not an expert comment!......
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