In the entire 23 years of age, i have been searching my goal. In the busy metropolitan city, no one has time to stop by and ask , "hey, how are you?" But still life keeps on running and days are changing in a blink into night. Sometimes I ask myself, why people are changing? why they are so materialistic?why everyone is judging others my seeing bank passbook? Is this the way norms are laid by the society?
If you see 40 yrs back , people were not so stone hearted. They feel good if some unwanted guest arrived. In my father's childhood , he enjoyed when they give unexpected visit only to have sweet and namkeen after Vijaya dashmi. It seems everyone had warmth in their heart. Nowadays , nobody even cares to visit without formal invitation. Love, affection, sympathy, tenderness, kindness has taken a back seat, and the word 'money' 'power' echoed everywhere.
With due course of time, children nowadays forget to play in evening. Their innocence are buried under a heavy competition. It really scares me to see their big school bags and put me to think , where does there childhood gone? From child to man , everyone's life are chained in monotony. To establish , gain position, respect in concrete society we are detaching ourself from humanity. in the name of success. But at the end of the day we are alone standing in a corner of a dark room , frustrated, tired and exhausted but no one is there to ask, "hey, are you okay?"
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Monday, September 6, 2010
perfect marriage-does it exist?
Do you think marriages are made in heaven? The answer of this question differs from person to person. contradiction are definitely there for the perfect marriage, if somebody ask me to give opinion about it, i would rather say i believe in marriage , moreover, a perfect marriage. Though i have not entered the holy matrimony, yet dreams are there. But the question is 'what is perfect marriage'? Does the word 'perfect' is added by God or humans? this part of question is very tricky to answer,even experts are arguing on it. Perfect marriage (according to my opinion) is a journey with one soul and two bodies. But the truth is women rule's. Women always wanted to rule in marriage , if her domination fails , her frustration,anger changes into a sweet knife which can chop her partner desire,pleasure ,emotion and life into pieces. In one word, "BOSS..YOU ARE DEAD ".
Does man treats his women the same way as women do? Experts says that man does not want to be dominated. He rather become the victims of insecurity and badly-treated. As we know that his hormones are tuned to be the protector and provider of the family,domination from his better half kills the real man in him. In most cases couples really change there individuality to see smile in partners faces. but where does this sacrifices land up? Does a person really makes other person happy by killing one desire? why every body want to change his/her partner into his/her second version? Does it really called " true love" or "perfect marriage". The answer is not so difficult. Everybody says..' accept the person the way they are' . but does it really possible? I personally tried to accept my partner the way he is, but believe me , it really kills me inside and outcome is.. "Don't you know i don't like this ".
This form of contradiction continue life long. It may be like this way or other way.
May be this is called the journey of perfect marriage.
Do you think marriages are made in heaven? The answer of this question differs from person to person. contradiction are definitely there for the perfect marriage, if somebody ask me to give opinion about it, i would rather say i believe in marriage , moreover, a perfect marriage. Though i have not entered the holy matrimony, yet dreams are there. But the question is 'what is perfect marriage'? Does the word 'perfect' is added by God or humans? this part of question is very tricky to answer,even experts are arguing on it. Perfect marriage (according to my opinion) is a journey with one soul and two bodies. But the truth is women rule's. Women always wanted to rule in marriage , if her domination fails , her frustration,anger changes into a sweet knife which can chop her partner desire,pleasure ,emotion and life into pieces. In one word, "BOSS..YOU ARE DEAD ".
Does man treats his women the same way as women do? Experts says that man does not want to be dominated. He rather become the victims of insecurity and badly-treated. As we know that his hormones are tuned to be the protector and provider of the family,domination from his better half kills the real man in him. In most cases couples really change there individuality to see smile in partners faces. but where does this sacrifices land up? Does a person really makes other person happy by killing one desire? why every body want to change his/her partner into his/her second version? Does it really called " true love" or "perfect marriage". The answer is not so difficult. Everybody says..' accept the person the way they are' . but does it really possible? I personally tried to accept my partner the way he is, but believe me , it really kills me inside and outcome is.. "Don't you know i don't like this ".
This form of contradiction continue life long. It may be like this way or other way.
May be this is called the journey of perfect marriage.
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